Mostly I think, I have been able to just let it go. No it hasn't been easy. Sometimes you can easily say - nope not worth the trouble, other times, well it does take a little work.
But I try to always let those I love know it, each and every day. It may sound corny or strange, but I always end my conversation with loved ones saying "I love you".
I know that they know I love them. I know that they love me, but I never want to take the chance that it won't be the last thing I remind them of.
Besides, I really like to remind them that I love them - makes me feel good too.
How about you?