I just love this.
I think all too often people, especially young girls, will compromise their believes or feelings so that they can "fit in" or "be accepted" or even worse "so they will be liked/loved". We need to help them to understand that the people we want to be our friends, to be part of our lives will rise up to meet the high standards we have, that we live our lives by, IF they are meant to be a part of our lives.
But this doesn't just apply to young girls. No it should be taught to our children - boys as well as girls - and lived in such a way that they will see that we also live this way. That our friends live this way ---- and we are all better for it.